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Leading from the Back - What it takes to become a safe leader.

Most leaders face forward.

 

They set the pace, move toward the goal, and assume the team is keeping up. They can't see who's struggling, who's checked out, or who's already made the decision to leave.

 

They find out too late. This talk is about the other half of leadership, and what it actually means to be a leader your team feels safe to follow.

 

A 500-kilogram animal is going to show you exactly what that looks like.

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You were taught to lead from the front. Nobody taught you the other half.

In a wild horse herd, the lead mare sets direction from the front. The herd follows her because they trust her judgment.

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But there is a second role.

 

The stallion leads from the back. He watches the whole group. He sees who is falling behind before anyone else does.

 

He protects the vulnerable and makes sure no one gets left behind.

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Most organisations have the first role covered. Almost no one is doing the second.

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The horse doesn't follow authority. It follows safety.

A horse has no concept of your title, your track record, or your reputation. It responds to one thing: do I feel safe with this person right now?

 

Safety, in a horse herd, means something very specific. It means the leader is self-aware, consistent, attuned to each individual, and does exactly what they say they will do.

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Working with a horse in real time shows you four things most leadership training never touches.

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Self-awareness and regulation

The horse reads the gap between what you feel and what you present. If you are suppressing stress while performing composure, it knows. It moves away. Your team reads the same signal. They just don't say anything.

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Clear and consistent signals

A horse given unclear direction doesn't argue. It stalls. Mixed signals, unclear priorities, words that don't match decisions - they produce the same result in a team. What you get is quiet disengagement.

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Knowing the individual's capacity

You don't ask a horse for ten steps back if it has never done one. You start with one step. You meet it where it actually is, not where you need it to be.

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Who books this talk?

Corporate and Leadership

Leadership conferences, executive retreats, HR and L&D events, and team offsites.

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Allied Health and NDIS

Counsellors, psychologists, OTs, support coordinators, and allied health professional development days.

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Formats

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  • Keynote, 45 to 60 minutes.

  • Workshop, half day.

  • On-site experience at Berkman Academy, half or full day.

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About the speaker

Tamir Berkman is the founder of Berkman Academy and a qualified counsellor registered with the Australian Counselling Association.

 

He works with NDIS participants, veterans, young people who won't engage with traditional therapy, and corporate teams.

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Tamir is a veteran, was a corporate marketing manager for over 25 years and worked as a consultant for Australia's leading brands, non-profits and government bodies. 

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He speaks from what he sees every week in the paddock, not from research or theory. It's real change happening during sessions, where nature, movement, horses and people meet.

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Let's talk about your event.

Every booking starts with a short conversation. Tamir responds within two business days.

0405 689 210

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We acknowledge the Traditional Custodians of the land on which we work, the Wurundjeri people of the Kulin Nation.

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We recognize their deep and enduring connection to this land, water, and community, and we pay our respects to their Elders past and present.

 

We honor the strength, wisdom, and culture of First Nations people and acknowledge that sovereignty was never ceded.

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